Sometimes in life the things you love you lose eh? This line is actually out of a song and I only realised how much truth that sentence carries a while back.
The irony of losing something or someone comes from the fact that theres always something better out there and the only reason you lost it is because it was never really yours. Someone I love once told me this, " R.B, If you love it then set it free and if it comes back then you know its yours" and its so true that it hurts! You don't want to set it free because you know sometimes that it wont ever come back and that kills you. But you know something.. You gotta do it and once you do you'll realise that your so much better off without it.
Moving On .. Everyone thinks it happens in months, weeks, days, hours, minutes or even seconds for some but in my opinion you only move on once you’ve realised that the only reason this relationship didn't work out is because it just wasn't meant to be or some say it was just one-sided love that changed you as a person to the point that you couldn't recognise yourself anymore. Relationships are like rollercoasters when your on it your uncomfortable and you feel sick and after a minutes its over your done, you feel dizzy for a while but thats it you wash your face put ur hat back on and move on to the next game=] Stop seeing it from only your point of view always stand a few steps back and look down at the relationship as a third person with no intrest in the matter and thats how you see where it went wrong and why you don't need it anymore .. Then and only then,, You move on:)
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