Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Wrong Step Hunni *WatchOut*

We all know whats wrong and whats right but sometimes you just can't help yourself you look at whats wrong and you just think:
" How bad can this be?"
and in my case I would say: " Thats so bad!"
But then I think to myself Im totally going for this because no matter what happens atleast I wont think "What If"!

That feeling you get from doing the wrong thing, the rush , the adrenaline, the emotions its all worth it because its an experience you wont get doing anything else in the world. Its just that when you don't have boundaries for yourself you always think everything is right which causes you to lose the thrill of every step you take like having to much of something that you stop wanting it anymore!

But dont think that always doing the wrong thing is what gives you the thrill just like I said before too much of something will just mean that you dont want it anymore..

Balance you guys! Do the right thing but sometimes just go for what you want , take the risk , whats life without risks. Who gets to tell you; you can't do this, you can't date him , you can't be friends with them . Don't listen to anyone else follow your heart follow your mind . Live your life to the fullest just try not to hurt and disappoint the closest people to you because disappointment doesn't come or go easily its here to stay.

So becareful what you wish for coz you just might get it;)

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Losing Love?

Sometimes in life the things you love you lose eh? This line is actually out of a song and I only realised how much truth that sentence carries a while back.


The irony of losing something or someone comes from the fact that theres always something better out there and the only reason you lost it is because it was never really yours. Someone I love once told me this, " R.B, If you love it then set it free and if it comes back then you know its yours" and its so true that it hurts! You don't want to set it free because you know sometimes that it wont ever come back and that kills you. But you know something.. You gotta do it and once you do you'll realise that your so much better off without it.


Moving On .. Everyone thinks it happens in months, weeks, days, hours, minutes or even seconds for some but in my opinion you only move on once you’ve realised that the only reason this relationship didn't work out is because it just wasn't meant to be or some say it was just one-sided love that changed you as a person to the point that you couldn't recognise yourself anymore. Relationships are like rollercoasters when your on it your uncomfortable and you feel sick and after a minutes its over your done, you feel dizzy for a while but thats it you wash your face put ur hat back on and move on to the next game=] Stop seeing it from only your point of view always stand a few steps back and look down at the relationship as a third person with no intrest in the matter and thats how you see where it went wrong and why you don't need it anymore .. Then and only then,, You move on:)

Monday, March 22, 2010

When Change Takes Over...

People ALWAYS Change.

Woah the amount of meanings this has is just crazy!
Some people like change, some dispise it, others don't even notice it happening.
The only way Change can effect your life is in the way you preceive it.

There are 3 Types of Preceiving change:


  1. You either like it so you learn to adapt to whatever change happens; whether it's good or bad.
  2. Or you dispise it but because change will always happen and for you to be able to keep what you have you need to adapt to the changes it made or else everyone will be 5 steps forward and you will be stuck 10 steps back wondering why everything is changing when you don't like change.
  3. You don't even realise it's happening therefore you miss out on the most importnant things in life because whats life without change?

Just like mistakes make-us or break-us.. Change really is like good and bad mistakes that either help break or make us,, but we should always look for something positive to make out of the small negative things that put us down. There's always the times where you think to yourself screw it I dont want to see the brightside but those are the times you should! because thats when you know that everything happens for a reason and just like heart has no reason, change has no reason.

When you realise change is there and its bound to happen thats when you know there's always a Bright Side to everything...